Comeandflirt review

Pros and cons

Who it suits

• Adults after casual, discreet encounters in a heterosexual setting
• Women who want to browse and message at no cost (Free for women; free signup, browse, 8 messages)
• Readers who want EU data storage with access, erasure and portability rights (EU-only data storage; access, erase, portability)

Who should look elsewhere

• People looking for LGBTQ or niche matching, since the audience focus is Adults 18+ heterosexual dating; women free
• Men who want free access, as free signup, browsing and messages are for women (Free for women; free signup, browse, 8 messages)
• Anyone who needs phone support, as contact is email and help centre

What is free and what costs

Women use Comeandflirt at no cost. The service states that free access covers signup, browsing and Free for women; free signup, browse, 8 messages, so a woman can look around and send a set number of messages before choosing to pay. Men pay a subscription. The lowest starting price is €16.50 a month, which sits above the site median of €14 and near the upper end of the range, with the site reaching as high as €162.69. Longer commitments cost more in total, so the practical price depends on which of the 3 days, 7 days, 14 days, 1, 3, 6 months you pick. A short plan keeps the first outlay small, and the monthly figure is a starting point rather than a single tier.

Billing and cancelling

Your data is stored in the EU only, and the privacy terms name access, erasure and portability rights, so you can ask for a copy of your data or ask for it removed. Billing follows a free model for women with a paid subscription for men, which keeps charges simple to follow. Subscriptions auto-renew. Cancellation happens in the account, and the withdrawal period in Auto-renews; cancel in account; 14-day withdrawal gives you a window to change your mind and claim a refund. Read the renewal terms before the first payment, since the charge returns until you cancel.

Using the service

Comeandflirt is aimed at Adults 18+ heterosexual dating; women free, so the audience is deliberately narrow and straightforward. The service lists casual, discreet and mature dating as its focus, which suits people who want low-key meetings rather than long relationship searches. Profiles are checked before they go live: an age is declared and photos are reviewed before publishing, which reduces the chance of a mismatch between a profile and the person behind it. The online crowd is modest, at 1,155 online users (2026-09-26), so replies depend on who happens to be online at the time you browse.

Members and plans

The audience is Adults 18+ heterosexual dating; women free, and the service is run for casual, discreet and mature encounters. That combination works for readers who want a focused, low-key community and for anyone who prefers not to browse a large crowd. The online audience is smaller than most services here, at 1,155 online users (2026-09-26), so activity peaks matter more than headline numbers. Plans come in 3 days, 7 days, 14 days, 1, 3, 6 months, letting you start on a short block and renew a longer one only once you know the service fits. Verified profiles come as part of the package, with photos reviewed before publishing.

The company behind it

Comeandflirt is operated by SALAMANDRA WEB, S.L., based in Spain, and the company details date it to 2010, giving it a long operating record in casual dating. Being an EU company means the privacy terms sit under European data rules, with storage in the EU and access, erasure and portability rights stated. Support runs on email and help centre, so questions go by email or through the help centre rather than by phone. No industry licence is listed for the service, so expect to rely on the published terms and the help centre for billing questions.

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Frequently asked questions

Sources

• comeandflirt.com/faq.html checked September 26, 2026

  Backs: What is free, Members, Pricing model, Categories

  “The website is free for women.”

• comeandflirt.com/index.php checked September 26, 2026

  Backs: Audience focus, Renewal and cancelling, Features, Plans, Monthly price from, Support channels, Profile verification

  “The "Premium" offer is free for women and paying for men and couples.”

• comeandflirt.com/index.php checked September 26, 2026

  Backs: Founded, Headquarters, Legal entity

  “The site comeandflirt.com is published by the Company SALAMANDRA WEB, S.L.”

• comeandflirt.com/index.php checked September 26, 2026

  Backs: Privacy and data

  “Your data is only intended for the Company and its service providers located exclusively in the European Union.”