Second Love review

Updated September 28, 2026 · AdultCue Editorial Team · Facts checked September 26, 2026

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Our verdict

Second Love suits adults in the Netherlands and Flanders who want a discreet place to meet outside their current relationship. Premium starts at €25.83 a month while a free profile and free membership are available, so the paid tier stays optional for casual browsing.

Key facts

Best for
Adults in the Netherlands and Flanders who want discreet non-marital dating and can start free.
Monthly price from
€25.83 (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
What is free
Free profile; free membership valid 3 years (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Profile verification
Profiles individually reviewed by staff (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Audience focus
Couples seeking discreet extramarital flings (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Plans
Free; Premium 1, 3, 6 month and promo 2 month (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Members
25,000 Flemish members (3 May 2011) (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Renewal and cancelling
Auto-renews; stop by email 48h-6 working days ahead (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Privacy and data
Payment data not stored; data not shared with third parties (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Categories
Discreet, Swinger (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Legal entity
Brunique b.v. (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Headquarters
Netherlands (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Support channels
Email, Phone, Help-centre (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Pricing model
Free
Features
Verified profiles
Official website
secondlove.nl

Pros and cons

Pros

  • You can join at no cost: Free profile; free membership valid 3 years.
  • Signups are checked by people rather than by form alone: Profiles individually reviewed by staff.
  • Payment data is not kept on file: Payment data not stored; data not shared with third parties.
  • Support runs on email, phone and help centre, so several routes are open.
  • The audience is narrow on purpose, with discreet and swinger listed as the niches.

Cons

  • Premium starts at €25.83 a month, while the casual-dating price median is €13.57.
  • Paid blocks renew on their own, and stopping runs through email sent ahead of the renewal date: Auto-renews; stop by email 48h-6 working days ahead.
  • It is a single market service based in the Netherlands, and the audience size it publishes counts Flemish members: 25,000 Flemish members (3 May 2011).

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Who it suits

  • Adults in the Netherlands and Flanders who want a discreet, swinging crowd: discreet and swinger.
  • Readers who want to look around at no cost first: Free profile; free membership valid 3 years.
  • People who care that payment data is not stored and nothing is passed to third parties: Payment data not stored; data not shared with third parties.

Who should look elsewhere

  • Readers on a tight budget, since Findom.com charges $0.09 a month against €25.83 here.
  • Anyone who would rather spend less elsewhere, since BDSM-baari lists fees of €0.83 to €2.50.

Pricing and free tier

Start with what the site charges and what it gives away. Premium access begins at €25.83 a month, and the membership page lists Free; Premium 1, 3, 6 month and promo 2 month, so a shorter block or a promo block sits alongside the longer terms. On the free side, Free profile; free membership valid 3 years. The paid figure sits above the casual-dating price median of €13.57, which is the number to weigh before paying for any block. With a free option in place, the real choice is whether paid access adds enough to justify a recurring charge that renews on its own.

Members and plans

The audience is defined rather than broad: Couples seeking discreet extramarital flings. The published size is 25,000 Flemish members (3 May 2011), a dated figure, so read it as a snapshot rather than a live count. The same membership page carries the plan list, Free; Premium 1, 3, 6 month and promo 2 month, so the free option and the paid blocks come from a single structure. For readers who want a specific kind of company rather than volume, that focus is the point: a narrower pool makes the audience easier to read before you pay.

Privacy, billing and cancelling

Billing data is the practical part: Payment data not stored; data not shared with third parties. The renewal terms read Auto-renews; stop by email 48h-6 working days ahead, so the cancellation route is email and the notice has to reach them ahead of the renewal date rather than on it. For readers who weigh privacy and billing together, that is the pairing to hold on to: payment details are not kept on one side, and a paid block keeps charging until it is stopped in advance on the other. An unused paid block is the easiest cost here to forget, so set the reminder when a renewal starts rather than when you decide to leave.

Who runs it

The service is operated by Brunique b.v., based in the Netherlands. That makes it a single market operation, so the terms, the law and the contact points all sit in a single market rather than in a network spread across several countries. Support runs on email, phone and help centre, which gives several routes to the operator. Because the company is named, a question about an account, stored data or a charge can be put to the entity that runs the site.

How Second Love compares

Where Second Love is available

Available
Belgium, Netherlands

Countries from the brand (Source, checked September 26, 2026)

Frequently asked questions

What does premium access cost on Second Love?+

Paid access starts at €25.83 a month. The membership page lists Free; Premium 1, 3, 6 month and promo 2 month, so a shorter block or a promo block sits alongside the longer terms. That starting price is above the casual-dating price median of €13.57, which is worth weighing before you sign up.

Is there a free tier, and what does it include?+

Yes, there is a free option: Free profile; free membership valid 3 years. The service is also described as a free model, so a profile can be set up before any payment. Keep the stated validity in mind, since the free membership is not open ended, and note that verified profiles are a listed feature: verified profiles.

How do I stop a premium membership from renewing?+

Paid blocks renew on their own, and the stated terms are Auto-renews; stop by email 48h-6 working days ahead. That means cancelling runs through email, and the message has to arrive ahead of the renewal date rather than on it. If you plan to try a paid block and decide later, set a reminder for the notice window and keep the email address you used handy.

What happens to my data and payment details?+

Payment data not stored; data not shared with third parties. That is the short version of the data handling: the site says it keeps no payment data and passes nothing to third parties. For a discreet audience that is the part that matters most, and it is also the reason to read the policy yourself before uploading anything personal.

Are the profiles on the site real?+

Profiles are checked by hand: Profiles individually reviewed by staff, and verified profiles also appear as a listed feature: verified profiles. A staff review is a stronger filter than an automated photo check, though it describes how the site handles signups rather than anything about an individual member. Treat it as a reason to stay alert rather than a promise.

Who is this service aimed at?+

The audience is specific: Couples seeking discreet extramarital flings, with discreet and swinger listed as the site's niches. The published member figure is 25,000 Flemish members (3 May 2011), so the pool is focused rather than a large general catalogue. Anyone outside that audience pays the same membership prices for a smaller set of relevant profiles.

Which country does it cover, and who runs it?+

The operator is Brunique b.v., based in the Netherlands. That makes it a single market service, so the terms, the consumer law and the contact points all sit in a single market rather than in a network spread over several regions. If you are outside that market, check that the membership terms still cover you before you pay.

How do I get help if something goes wrong?+

Support runs on email, phone and help centre, so there are several routes to reach the operator. Profile checks are done by staff: Profiles individually reviewed by staff, so the people behind the signups are the same operation you reach. If a charge, a login or stored data causes trouble, the question goes to a named company rather than an anonymous inbox.

Sources

Compiled from 6 source pages, checked September 26, 2026. We did not open an account.

Second Love

Adults in the Netherlands and Flanders who want discreet non-marital dating and can start free.

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