SwingLifestyle review

Updated September 28, 2026 · AdultCue Editorial Team · Facts checked September 26, 2026

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Our verdict

SwingLifestyle suits adults who want a long running app for meeting other adults in casual and swinger settings, with millions of members behind it. The trade off is cost: monthly fees of $19.99 sit well above cheaper casual dating options, and messaging is not part of the free profile.

Key facts

Best for
Adults who want a checked, swinger and casual pool and will pay above the casual dating median.
Monthly price from
$19.99 (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
What is free
Free profile; messaging not included (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Profile verification
Government ID checked; age and identity verified (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Audience focus
Swinger couples, singles and groups (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Plans
Monthly, 3, 6, 7, 12-month, lifetime (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Members
millions of members (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Renewal and cancelling
Auto-renews; cancel in iTunes settings (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Privacy and data
Privacy controls; ID and email required (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
App store rating
App Store 4.1/5, 5.2K ratings (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Categories
Casual, Swinger (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Legal entity
DashBoardHosting, LLC (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Headquarters
United States (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Founded
2001 (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Support channels
Email, Help-centre, Community (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Pricing model
Free
Features
Mobile app, Verified profiles
Official website
swinglifestyle.com

Apps and profiles

Elsewhere
Xfacebook.com

Pros and cons

Pros

  • Government ID is checked, and age and identity are verified (Government ID checked; age and identity verified), so profiles are backed by a document check rather than self description alone.
  • A free profile means you can set up an account and browse without paying (Free profile; messaging not included), and verified profiles sit in the listed features (app and verified profiles).
  • Plan terms cover Monthly, 3, 6, 7, 12-month, lifetime, so a short monthly commitment and a lifetime commitment are both on offer.
  • The roster is listed at millions of members and the audience is Swinger couples, singles and groups, so the pool is defined rather than general.
  • Support runs on email, help centre and community, and the operator has been in place since 2001.

Cons

  • Monthly fees of $19.99 sit above the casual dating median, and the free tier stops before messaging (Free profile; messaging not included).
  • Paid access auto renews, and cancellation happens in iTunes settings rather than in the service (Auto-renews; cancel in iTunes settings).
  • Joining requires a government ID and an email address (Privacy controls; ID and email required), so privacy minded readers trade identity details for access.
  • Support runs on email, help centre and community only, which covers routine questions and is thin for anything urgent.

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Who it suits

  • Adults who want a swinger and casual pool with a government ID check on profiles (Government ID checked; age and identity verified) and millions of members to browse.
  • Readers who value longevity: the operator DashBoardHosting, LLC has run the service since 2001.
  • Adults willing to pay above the casual dating median, which sits at €13.57, for checked identities.

Who should look elsewhere

  • Readers who want free messaging should look at Findom.com, listed at $0.09 per month, since the free profile here stops before messaging (Free profile; messaging not included).
  • Budget first adults have more room at BDSM baari, where fees run €0.83 to €2.50, or at Senior.dk Dating, listed at DKK 2.30.
  • People who want billing handled outside the app store: cancellation happens in iTunes settings here (Auto-renews; cancel in iTunes settings), so a self billed option fits better.

Members and plans

SwingLifestyle is aimed at Swinger couples, singles and groups, so the pool is defined rather than open ended. Size is the argument for it: millions of members is listed, and a niche service lives on how many people are actually active inside it. Payment terms are broad: Monthly, 3, 6, 7, 12-month, lifetime. Longer terms spread the cost and lower the monthly equivalent for readers comfortable committing early, while a monthly term keeps the commitment short.

Billing and cancelling

Two facts matter most for a private life online. Joining requires an ID and an email address, and the service offers privacy controls around that data (Privacy controls; ID and email required). The trade is identity for control: you hand over documents to join, and the settings decide what happens afterwards. On billing, paid access auto renews and cancellation happens in iTunes settings (Auto-renews; cancel in iTunes settings), so the store is the place to act, not the app.

What is free and what costs

Free covers the profile, and messaging is not part of it (Free profile; messaging not included), so the free tier is a way to look rather than a way to talk. Paid entry sits at $19.99 per month equivalent, and the terms listed are Monthly, 3, 6, 7, 12-month, lifetime. A monthly term carries the lowest commitment, while a lifetime term costs more up front and settles the renewal question. Readers who only want to look can stay on the free profile.

Using the service

Expect a defined room rather than a general feed. The people here are Swinger couples, singles and groups, and the roster is listed at millions of members, so the number of profiles you can browse is the practical measure of the service. In a setting specific community, a roster of that size means more relevant choices than a larger pool elsewhere with mixed intent, and the shape of use stays simple: browse people in one setting, then decide who is worth paying for.

The company behind it

The operator is DashBoardHosting, LLC, based in the United States. It has been running since 2001, which is a long stretch in a niche where services tend to fade. Support runs on email, help centre and community only, so readers who want a voice channel should plan for email or the help centre. Continuity of the operator matters in a discreet community, where trust is part of the product.

How SwingLifestyle compares

Frequently asked questions

How much does SwingLifestyle cost?+

Membership starts at $19.99 per month equivalent, which is above the casual dating median that sits at €13.57. The free part is the profile itself, so a paid plan is what covers messaging. Cheaper casual options exist, so the price is the first thing to weigh.

What is free on SwingLifestyle?+

Creating a profile is free, and that is where the free tier stops: Free profile; messaging not included. A paid plan is needed before messaging opens up. The terms listed are Monthly, 3, 6, 7, 12-month, lifetime, so a monthly option and a lifetime option both exist, which suits readers who want a short commitment or plan to stay long term.

How do I cancel a SwingLifestyle subscription?+

Paid access auto renews, and cancellation happens in iTunes settings (Auto-renews; cancel in iTunes settings), which is where the App Store subscription is managed. Plan terms are listed as Monthly, 3, 6, 7, 12-month, lifetime, so a monthly plan is the easiest to stop. Readers who would rather keep billing outside the app store should weigh that before joining.

Does SwingLifestyle check who joins?+

Government ID is checked, and age and identity are verified (Government ID checked; age and identity verified), so a profile is backed by a document check rather than self description alone. Joining also requires an ID and an email address (Privacy controls; ID and email required), which is a firmer gate than a free model where anyone can sign up, at the cost of handing over identity details up front.

Is there an app for SwingLifestyle?+

The listed features name an app and verified profiles (app and verified profiles), so mobile access and identity checks are both part of the setup. The App Store listing shows App Store 4.1/5, 5.2K ratings. Review volume matters on a service like this, where an active pool matters more than the feature list.

Who is on SwingLifestyle?+

The audience is Swinger couples, singles and groups, and the roster is listed at millions of members. That is a specific pool rather than a general dating crowd, which helps when you know the setting you want and does not help when you want range. The listed niches are casual and swinger, so casual and swinger are the two lanes.

How does the price compare with cheaper casual sites?+

SwingLifestyle asks $19.99 per month equivalent, against $0.09 at Findom.com, DKK 2.30 at Senior.dk Dating and €0.83 to €2.50 at BDSM baari. The casual dating median sits at €13.57, so the gap is real and worth weighing against the verification and the size of the pool.

How do I get help on SwingLifestyle?+

Support runs on email, help centre and community, so a question can go by email or through the help centre, with a community channel alongside. The operator is DashBoardHosting, LLC in the United States, which is useful context if a billing query turns into a complaint. Subscription billing itself sits with the app store.

Who runs SwingLifestyle?+

The service is run by DashBoardHosting, LLC, based in the United States, and it has been operating since 2001. For a niche community, the length of time an operator has run the service is part of the trust picture, alongside the identity checks described in the terms.

Sources

  • apps.apple.com/us/app/sls-official/id1449170265 checked September 26, 2026

    Backs: App store rating, Audience focus, Renewal and cancelling, Founded, Members, Plans, Monthly price from

    “4.1 out of 5, 5.2K Ratings”

  • swinglifestyle.com checked September 26, 2026

    Backs: Categories

    “Swinglifestyle.com is the World's Largest Swinger Community”

  • swinglifestyle.com/login/privacy-policy.htm checked September 26, 2026

    Backs: Headquarters, Privacy and data, Support channels

    “DashBoardHosting is based in the United States”

  • swinglifestyle.com/login/terms-of-use.htm checked September 26, 2026

    Backs: Features, What is free, Legal entity, Pricing model, Profile verification

    “our staff manually reviews new Member Registrations, Profile write ups, and Profile updates”

Compiled from 4 source pages, checked September 26, 2026. We did not open an account.

SwingLifestyle

Adults who want a checked, swinger and casual pool and will pay above the casual dating median.

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