Updated September 28, 2026 · AdultCue Editorial Team
3DXChat vs Gay Harem
Where 3DXChat and Gay Harem differ
| Compare |  3DXChat |  Gay Harem |
|---|---|---|
| Price model | Subscription | Free to play |
| Platforms | Windows | Web, Mobile web |
| Genres | Adult, Virtual world, Social | Rpg |
| Payment methods | Credit card | Visa, Mastercard |
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Key differences
- Platforms: only 3DXChat offers Windows.
- Platforms: only Gay Harem offers Web, Mobile web.
- Genres: only 3DXChat offers Adult, Virtual world, Social.
- Genres: only Gay Harem offers Rpg.
- Payment methods: only 3DXChat offers Credit card.
- Payment methods: only Gay Harem offers Visa, Mastercard.
- Support channels: only 3DXChat offers Help centre, Community.
- Pricing model: only 3DXChat offers Subscription.
- Pricing model: only Gay Harem offers Free.
Our verdict on each
3DXChat
3DXChat suits adults who want a subscription virtual world chat with a VR side rather than a browser dating site. Entry sits at $19.99 a month, above the €14 median across the sites listed here, and extra features come from XGold in-game credit buys extra features.
Gay Harem
Gay Harem is a browser role-playing game built on a free to play model, so it suits adults who want an adult game open in a browser without picking a paid tier. Free-to-play is the most common model in the adult-games ranking here at 40%, while yoummee lists subscription pricing.
Positions in our rankings
| Ranking | 3DXChat | Gay Harem |
|---|---|---|
| Porn games | 12 of 38 | 8 of 38 |
Every fact side by side
| Fact | 3DXChat | Gay Harem |
|---|---|---|
| Pricing model | Subscription | Free |
| Features | Vr | Not confirmed |
| Legal entity | 3DXChat Inc | Gamadu |
| Headquarters | Not confirmed | Cyprus |
| Support channels | Email, Help centre, CommunityCovers more |
Dating
| Fact | 3DXChat | Gay Harem |
|---|---|---|
| Monthly price from | $19.99 | Not confirmed |
| Profile verification | 18+ adults only, legal age required | Not confirmed |
| Audience focus | Adults seeking 3D virtual social dating | Not confirmed |
| Plans | 1, 6 and 12 month subscriptions | Not confirmed |
| Credit system | XGold in-game credit buys extra features | Not confirmed |
| Renewal and cancelling | Auto-renewing; cancel auto-renewal in control panel | Not confirmed |
| Privacy and data | Processes account, game and cookie data | Not confirmed |
| Categories | Casual | Not confirmed |
Pros and cons
3DXChat
Pros
- Entry price of $19.99 a month is listed, and longer terms lower the per month cost
- A vr option sets it apart from the listed alternatives
- XGold in-game credit buys extra features on top of the subscription
Cons
- Auto-renewing billing means you have to cancel auto-renewal in the control panel yourself
- You cannot play in a browser, since windows is the only listed platform
- It costs money to enter where AdultForce is free and Comix Harem is free to play
Gay Harem
Pros
- The model is free to play with access listed as free, so the cost side is clear before you start.
- It runs on web and mobile web, so a desktop browser and a phone browser together cover access.
- The genre is rpg, so the format is defined rather than open-ended.
Cons
- Support runs on email only, while 8.3% of adult-games brands in the ranking offer live chat and 58.3% keep a help centre.
- Access is limited to web and mobile web, with no native app listed, while 64% of the brands compared on AdultCue are mobile apps.
- Checkout uses visa and mastercard, so readers who pay by wallet or transfer have no listed method here.
Who each suits
3DXChat
Who it suits
- Adults who want a virtual world chat rather than a swipe-based dating site
- Readers who already have a VR headset or plan to buy one
- People comfortable paying a subscription and topping up with in-game credit
Who should look elsewhere
- Anyone wanting to pay nothing, since AdultForce is free and Comix Harem is free to play
- People who want to play in a browser, because yoummee runs on web
- Readers who want a casual niche at no entry cost, as Comix Harem is free to play
Gay Harem
Who it suits
- Adults who want an adult game that opens in a browser on a free to play model.
- Readers who pay by visa and mastercard and play on web and mobile web.
- Adults who are content to handle support over email alone.
Who should look elsewhere
- You want a set monthly figure to budget: yoummee lists subscription pricing.
- You want more support than email, and 3DXChat is the alternative to put beside it on that point.
- You pay with something other than visa and mastercard, in which case AChat is worth putting side by side on checkout.
Questions about each
3DXChat
How much does 3DXChat cost a month?+
Entry is $19.99 a month and the model is a subscription, offered as 1, 6 and 12 month subscriptions. For comparison, the median starting monthly price across the sites listed here is €14. Buying more time at once normally lowers the per month cost, so a longer term is the cheaper route if you will stay.
Is there a free part of 3DXChat?+
There is no free tier listed. The price model is a subscription at $19.99 a month, and the extra features are unlocked with XGold in-game credit buys extra features, so extra spending sits on top. Readers who want to look first can start with AdultForce, which is free.
Gay Harem
What does Gay Harem cost?+
The model is free to play and access is listed as free, so nothing has to be paid to begin. In the adult-games ranking on AdultCue, 40% of brands use a free-to-play model and 30% charge a subscription. The median subscription price across brands on the site is €7.89 a month.
Can I play it on a phone?+
Yes. The game runs on web and mobile web, so a desktop browser and a phone browser both work with the same account. There is no separate download to manage, and the rpg format loads in the browser. Payment still runs through visa and mastercard if the game asks for a card.